Seafarers' Chapel
The Seafarers’ Chapel stands on top of Blackrock, the dark crag on the West Shore across the Basin from Bucket Quay. Its tower and green copper spire are the first thing you see from the water, and a lamp burns in it for the ships. It is the only place on Bucketry where two players can wed. /warp chapel takes you to the steps before the door, or click the bell in the Pailhaven row of /warps.
On foot, follow the boardwalk south over the sand from the Breaker’s Yard, go through the lychgate and climb the Pilgrim Steps up the crag. The churchyard sits on a walled terrace beside the chapel, looking out over the water.
Hesper Calloway, the Harbor Chaplain, keeps the chapel and runs every service. Talk to her if you want the steps in person.
Getting wed
Section titled “Getting wed”- Propose. Type
/propose <player>. They get an Accept or Decline choice and have 2 minutes to answer (/propose acceptor/propose declinework too). You can withdraw with/propose cancel. - Go to the chapel together. Both of you stand in front of the altar at the end of the aisle.
- Start the service. One of you types
/wedor right-clicks the altar. Hesper reads the vows. - Say “I do”. Each of you clicks [I do] within 45 seconds. Stay at the altar until it is done.
When you are wed, the chapel bell rings, the whole server hears the news, and you both receive a Sea-Glass Band keepsake. Your names go on the Register of Vows board just inside the door. Friends are welcome to watch from the pews.
Life together
Section titled “Life together”/spouse opens your partner menu. Everything in it also works as a command:
| Command | What it does |
|---|---|
/spouse tp | Sail to your partner (3 second warmup, 10 minute cooldown) |
/spouse sethome, /spouse home | One shared home for the two of you (10 minute cooldown) |
/sc <message> or /spouse chat | Chat only your partner can see (/sc alone toggles it on and off) |
/spouse compass | Shows where your partner is on your action bar |
/spouse gift | Sends the item stack in your hand to your partner (they must be online with room, 30 second cooldown) |
/spouse hearts | Turns the little hearts on or off when you stand near each other |
/spouse info | Your wedding date and how many days you have been married |
/kiss, /hug | A small emote when you are within 4 blocks of each other |
You also get the ♥ Wed to tag with your partner’s name. It equips itself, and you can switch it in /tags.
Parting ways
Section titled “Parting ways”/divorce ends a marriage. Either partner can do it alone, and you confirm with a click. Neither of you can wed again for 7 days. You both keep your keepsakes.
